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In the early days of Facebook, Mark Zuckerberg ran his engineering teams under a four-word principle that became one of the most quoted and most misunderstood ideas in the...
You have already met Tim. The 7th grader whose mother called him lazy. Who qualified for USAMO and got into MIT. Whose mother sat across from me in my office,...
Something has gone wrong with a generation of young people, and we have spent the better part of a decade arguing about who is responsible for fixing it. The argument...

Tim’s mother called him lazy. He had a near-perfect AMC score. Both things were true and one of them was completely wrong.
The parents who push hardest often lose the most.
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Something has gone wrong with a generation of young people, and we have spent the

You have already met Tim.
The 7th grader whose mother called him lazy. Who

In the early days of Facebook, Mark Zuckerberg ran his engineering teams under a four-word

Let me start with something I want you to hold onto through everything that follows.<br

Part II covers the patterns that are most visible from the outside and most often

Every high-achieving student carries something. Most parents can see it — the tension before a

The first thing her mother mentioned was sleep.
Not the C in Calculus BC.

There is a word that comes up in almost every conversation I have with the

There is a conversation I have with parents several times a year that follows a

Suniya Luthar died on February 16, 2023. She was sixty-four years old.
She had

The Harvard Crimson published a piece this week by staff writers Sebastian Connolly and Summer
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